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One should not exaggerate the seriousness of what has happened to them, but they should also not accept abusive behavior. It sounds like you need to discuss this with someone, and you could start in one of these places:

Your state child protection service should have a web site, you can start looking at the official state web site. School personnel who receive a report of abuse are required to report it to child protection authorities.

CHILDHELP USA®

National Child Abuse Hotline: 800-4-A-CHILD

Crisis Counselors Available 24/7: www.childhelpusa.org/

National Clearinghouse on Child Abuse and Neglect Information

800-394-3366,

Child Welfare Information Gateway

Children’s Bureau/ACYF

Eighth Floor

1250 Maryland Avenue, Southwest

Washington, DC 20024-2141

Toll-free: 1-800-394-3366

Telephone: 703-385-7565

Fax: 703-385-3206

Internet:

Provides toll-free and local telephone numbers for reporting child abuse and

neglect in each state. In most cases the toll-free numbers listed are only

accessible from within the state. Also listed are links to state web sites,

which may provide additional information.

Depression self-help for teens:

I do not know what to do anymore. I'm going to lose it!?

Well Cosby, that's a tough one for me, because I left my home Thanksgiving Day, when I was 14-1/2 because I refused to share that day with my mothers new boyfriend. That was over fifty years ago. They married, and were happy for forty two years, until his death.

I hope all of their fights are not over you, because that is not good. Your mother loves him, and needs his companionship. You need to have a heart to heart talk about him with her. I'm not talking about a bitch session, where you tell her all the things you hate about him, as you have here, but a real question and answer period. You might learn a few things that may change your mind about him.

Of course I know nothing about his situation, and have no intention of making excuses for him, but considering the current national economic situation, he falls within the range of the most likely to suffer ling term or even permanent job loss. He is not the reason for America's difficulties, Juan, he is the victim of it. You might want to give him a little slack on that one.

He would probably like to sell his house, or have your mother and you move in with him, but the weak housing market likely makes that impossible, right now.

If he doesn't abuse your mother, and has not gotten physical with you, he is probably a good man, but he has not found a way to win you to him. That's very common, as you are now becoming a man, and consider yourself the head of your household. Much of what is going on right now is caused by hormonal changes within you. Rage is your favorite emotion, and that is natural.

Becoming friends with the teenage son of your significant other is one of the most difficult relational situations men encounter. I hope he continues to reach out to you, because your mother obviously needs his companionship, and hopefully, you will take her feelings into account, and try to seek some balance.

Good luck.

Am I depressed at 14, or am I making it all up?

I think you are right! You are depressed as well , the minute you didnt' win that race in colorado, you lost interest , perhaps because you are struggling with the fact that no one ever always wins at everything.

It sounds like you are blessed that your mom is so interested in your life, but at the same time, she is over interested , and pushing you into things that you may or may not want to do.

I think it is good you have a guinea pig and you might really like getting a dog as well , if you can do that.

You need to regain control over your life within the boundaries of 'mom' and let her know that you love her and all , and still need time and independance to sort through things in your mind and life.

Yes, she is correct that you should finish school, and you should bare that out until done, just do it.

Then you can go to college and university, vocational school , or whatever when you want to..

If you need a good hormone check up, call a compounding pharmacy and ask for a list of doctors that test and balance hormones, instead of an obgyn or an endocrinologist.

feelingfff.com thehallcenter.com

You are realizing that 'reality' is more than being taken care of and that is one of the things being a teen begins to uncover and then everyone learns how to deal with 'reality' .

You need a change of sceen , it seems, and to make a schedule to have time to yourself, and perhaps talk to her about hiring someone or paying you for the work you do around the home, even if only a little.

You have already decided that 'life will suck' when you get older, and that isn't necessarily the case, and that also means you have a self defeating attitude, and depression.

We are all dealing with the crap /stuff of life, and somehow one has to remember that people are the ones messing things up,and some people are trying to clean things up, and that real life is happy.

It is those balances in 'knowing' and knowledge' that keep you 'needing to think about things' and your hard pushing mom should remember that. It sounds like she pushes herself, and expects that from you also.

To assume or communicate that you are 'lazy and selfish' is really degrading, and you don't sound like that at all .

Only you can know if this is your own 'pity-fest' , or faking it, etc.

If a change of sceen, schedule, work load, or other things don't help , then you probably are depressed,yes. I recommend these type therapists for healing eftmastersworldwide.com if you need one.

Otherwise, we all have to figure out how we are going to contribute in this world.

someone will have to figure out how to break this back and forth in our gov, and maybe you need to start taking some debate classes and try different things for awhile to see if you like them.

As an 'avid mountain biker and racer' , you let yourself be defeated by pride. YOu can erase that and really enhance your skills in all areas with the method above or self help method at eftuniverse.com click on 'get started free' and read the manual and resource areas.

You can hone any skills with that method and remove pain and blocades to success as well.

I think you need a vacation.

Then you should get back up and do what you really like to do, and get back into life. If you cannot, then you probably need a new approach and some counseling.

Create your best life. You DO have things to think about. find mentors, role models , and investigate things you are interested in.

startstrongteens.org giverespect.org loveisnotabuse.com bbbs.org teenrelationship.org

girlsinc.org yourlifeyourvoice.org

Your role as a teen is to be able to rely on your parents, AND individuate. Become into yourself and life.

LIfe is beautiful, it is some people messing it up. Bring positive in you life. The positive people and love eventually always win out. They will save the planet.

Join in. Go win a medal, or something when you feel like it.

EDIT: ok from your edit, it is clear that your 'tiredness' could be hormone imbalances, and you should get a good check up on that, call a compounding pharmacy and find the doctors that test and treat hormones . watch your diet. It sound like you need to be around some people your own age and your best gf is someone you naturally miss. Your mom has some good points,and is being protective, but you have some just as valid points. I recommend you find a therapist you can trust and talk to somehow, and invite your mom in to work something out. She wants you closer, and you want to be more independant and around people your age. YOu both have good points and need a third party to hlep you work it all out.

the very best wishes