Love a Mensch Week on February, 2018: How can i get over a guy who has moved on.and moved away from me?

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How can i get over a guy who has moved on...and moved away from me?

Yes. No matter what you do, he will crop up in your dreams at night and in your thoughts during the day. The days and weeks go by, but the pain is as strong as ever.

I am truly sorry that you hurt this way. If it is any consolation, most of us go through it (and we do recover in time--but the scar never goes away).

What I am going to say will be hard, because the obsessing drains your energy, but--for your sake--make yourself do it: focus on the people about you. When they bore you, concentrate. Tell them in your own words what you think they are saying. Smile when it is appropriate to do so. Tell yourself that you will help someone feel better about him(her)self every day. Care. Care about people, care about their problems, care about your neighborhood, your town, your city, your country. Be a mensch!

You will feel new strength, even as the pain still throbs within your chest. One day, the pain will go away for a while. Another day, it will go away for a longer while. One night, when you think you are getting over him, you will awaken and feel like sobbing. It's OK. It is part of the grieving process.

Hang in tough. Are you strong? Resolve to be stronger! Be a caring person who learns from her heartbreak and who uses what she has learned to ease the pain of others who go through what your are going through.

As you get older you will lose people close to you. We all die. When they are gone, they will not come back. Loss of a dear loved one produces pain like that which you are experiencing. Perhaps you can learn to help a friend or relative who is suffering as you are now to suffer just a little less--just because you care.

GIRLS, need help, Do You think she likes me?? 10pts!?

GIRLS, need help, Do You think she likes me?? 10pts!?

Make time to be with her in person. Don't make most of your conversations with her electronic, see her in person as often as you can.

Be a "mensch" meaning do things for her without any expectations, just be her friend. Don't rush into anything, just be nice and stay friends. Love comes later, you will both know when you're there.

List a bunch of your favorite Rock songs?

List a bunch of your favorite Rock songs?

Motorpsycho - That Ol' White Line

Motorpsycho - Never Let You Out

S.Y.P.H. - Pamela

S.Y.P.H. - Die 11. Frau Im Harem

Strokes - Someday

Strokes - Hard To Explain

XTC - Respectable Street

XTC - Are You Receiving Me

Sparks - Amateur Hour

Sparks - Whippings & Apologies

Ton Steine Scherben - Mensch Meier

Ton Steine Scherben - Wir Mussen Hier Raus

Undertones - What's With Terry

Undertones - It's Going To Happen

Focus - Sylvia

Focus - Round Goes The Gossip

Rod Stewart - Mandolin Wind

Rod Stewart - True Blue

Faces - Cindy Incidentally

Faces - Had Me A Real Good Time

Small Faces - Afterglow

Small Faces - Wham Bam Thank You Mam

Traffic - Every Mother's Son

Traffic - Empty Pages

Velvet Underground - I Heard Her Call My Name

Velvet Underground - Venus In Furs

Mothers Of Invention - The Idiot Bastard Son

Mothers Of Invention - Son Of Suzy Creamcheese

Holy Modal Rounders - The I.W.W. Song

Holy Modal Rounders - My Mind Capsized

Fugs - Crystal Liason

Fugs - The Garden Is Open

Ginger Baker's Airforce - Aiko Biaye

Ginger Baker's Airforce - Do U No Hu Yor Phrenz R?

Cream - Those Were The Days

Cream - Take It Back

Free - Oh I Wept

Free - Highway Song

Tubes - Mondo Bondage

Tubes - You're No Fun

Stooges - I Wanna Be Your Dog

Stooges - Your Pretty Face Is Going To Hell

MC5 - Kick Out The Jams

MC5 - I Want You Right Now

The Nice - Daddy Where Did I Come From

The Nice - Happy Freuds

Julie Driscoll, Brian Auger & The Trinity - A Kind Of Love In

Julie Driscoll, Brian Auger & The Trinity - This Wheel's On Fire

Humble Pie - Get Down With It

Humble Pie - Say No More

Status Quo - Caroline

Status Quo - Don't Waste My Time

Bronco - Time Slips Away

Bronco - Amber Moon

Can - Paper House

Can - Oh Yeah

Midnight Oil - U.S. Forces

Midnight Oil - Kosciusko

The Fall - Dice Man

The Fall - Spectre Versus Rector

The Move - Don't Make My Baby Blue

The Move - Lightning Never Strikes Twice

Fairport Convention - Chelsea Morning

Fairport Convention - The Deserter

Stranglers - Goodbye Toulouse

Stranglers - Ugly

Ian Dury - My Old Man

Ian Dury - Plaistow Patricia

Janis Joplin - Kozmic Blues (In Concert version)

Janis Joplin - My Baby

The Damned - Fan Club

The Damned - So Messed Up

The Slits - Love & Romance (Peel Sessions version)

The Slits - Shoplifting (Peel Sessions version)

Buzzcocks - What Do I Get

Buzzcocks - Everybody's Happy Nowadays

Die Arzte - Schunder Song

Hallelujah Ding Dong Happy Happy - Ugly But Honest

Tim Buckley - Look At The Fool

Jeff Buckley - Lover You Should Have Come Over

Zeltinger - Asi Mit Niwoh

Iggy Pop - Beyond The Law

Slade - In Like A Shot From My Gun

The Automatics - When The Tanks Roll Over Poland Again

Alternative TV - Splitting In Two

Ars Nova - And How Am I To Know

Rainbirds - Blueprint (Extended Mix)

Sugar Minott - Two Time Loser (it's reggae, not rock, but you'll live)

This'd be a good place to mention that while last week I pretty much had Be Bop Deluxe's Axe Victim stuck in my head on continuous play mode this week it's been Sparks - Girl From Germany, The Stone Roses What The World's Been Waiting For, Spirit - Poor Richard, The Rolling Stones - Dandelion and Juliana Hatfield - My Sister alternating back and forth non-stop

That'll do you for now

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